Friday, June 11, 2010

Why not?

Recently my best friend and I were talking about love and marriage and finding a life-long partner. Some days we are optimistic about the dating scene and finding the "one" and some days we could give a damn. But the other week she joked about how that if we don't find anyone then we should move to San Francisco and get married. I thought it's a great idea! Why not get married? I mean we are best friends and get along so well. We love each other but are not in love with one another (yes we both like men only). We are both independent and lively, active people. We are great at communicating with one another. We play the devil's advocate role but in the end always support one another in decisions. We could live in a house together with separate bedrooms and take care of one another. We would have legal rights to each others documents in case something happened to either of us, then the other could make decisions. We would still continue to date in hopes of meeting a man.

It's a little far fetch but then again love and lifelong companionship with a man seem distant and out of reach sometimes too.

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